I don’t even recall what started our last argument.  I do recall that it quickly progressed to my husband packing his bags.  Which, by the way, still sit in the corner of the bedroom where they were tossed in exasperation.  They are still there because he is too lazy to put them away, not because he … More Please refer to the “Divorce Plan”

Another day. Another fight. Why, why, why, can’t I just let go?  I do not want to bear the burden of being the one.  I do not want to utter those words again.  I’ve carried that burden before, being the one to have to tell another person that it’s over.  It rips your heart out … More Being the One

Married.  Divorced.  Re-married.  Divorced?  Is that the next chapter in my life?  The new check-box that will define me on a personal history form?  Really?  I call BS!  This is not what I had planned.  This was supposed to be the LAST time. Ya know….like grow old together and walk off into the sunset.  I … More Married. Divorced. Re-married. Divorced?